The fact is that everyone can benefit from anger management as we are never taught how to manage anger and other emotions and therefore lack tools. You do not need to be a very angry person or a violent or aggressive person to benefit. Some of our clients bottle up and don't really know how to communicate, others avoid issues and become resentful and negative over time, whilst some engage in passive-aggressive behaviour such as sulking, moodiness or sabotage. The more obvious tell-tale signs that you need anger management is when you can answer yes to some of these behaviours:
You argue and fight a lot, even over silly and small things
You blame others all the time
You are impatient, easily irritated, frustrated and intolerant
You play the tit for tat game
You are revengeful and feel you need to teach people lessons or punish them
You display anger, aggressiveness or even road rage
You are very defensive and feel that others are triggering you all the time